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Secret Gay Agenda Revealed

If you’re not already obsessed with The Outs, you’re missing one of the greatest Web series to ride the L train to Bedford; Focusing on former boyfriends Jack and Mitch as they navigate their separate yet still tangled worlds, it’s one part comedy, one part depressing (the good kind), and all parts gay.”

via Queerty


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Anonymous Asked
QuestionI am a virgin, I have only done oral once and it was with a condom. I am a very careful person, but also easily scared. I believe that everyone in this world should get tested, weather they are virgins or not. Im getting tested and even thou i shouldn't worry, I do.. I have 3 people who were close to my family die from Aids. You are such a brave person and i look up to you. You have such an amazing purpose in this world, you're changing lives on tumbler. Keep strong and keep doing what Ur doin Answer

Thank you so much anonymous! I’ve always been a believer of “the best is yet to come.” I want everyone to know that :)

Anonymous Asked
QuestionI am constantly resentful of my boyfriend who contracted HIV from a guy, before we got together. It just irks me why he couldn't use a condom just that ONCE. I feel like being in a relationship with him, I carry that burden, too. He thinks its a personal attack on him when I talk about my fear of contracting the virus or how we have to be extremely careful when we have sex - half of the time, it takes the fun out of it. I really love him, but I just can't get over his stupid promiscuous mistake. Answer

Being resentful of your boyfriend and keeping it to yourself will not help your relationship. The bitterness will start bottling up and explode at some point. I also understand your fear of contracting HIV.

My advice is to put all of those things on the table for discussion. Just let it all out. Then you will be able to embrace them and not let them take the fun out of having sex with your boyfriend.

Talk it out with your boyfriend. Be honest about your feelings and thoughts.

My fame came to visit me for graduation and stayed with me for the past two weeks. It was nice having my mom and dad around. The best part was my mom’s delicious home cooked food.

I kept thinking whether I should disclose my HIV status to them but eventually decided I would not tell them this time. I hate the fact that I am hiding this from them because I’ve always been open to my parents about everything.

They leave tomorrow. I’m a bit sad that they are going. I have about a month till I start working at my new job. Everyday I feel extremely blessed to have such loving family and for me being able to adjust to a life with HIV.

I’m very thankful and know that it is now my duty to share and give as much as possible to those in need.

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Anonymous Asked
QuestionI recently found out my partner is HIV+ I got tested and I'm negative as of now, his viral load is still very low but I'm worried he could have still transmitted it to me. I go back in three weeks for another test and again in 3 months. I am worried and having a hard time dealing, do you have any advice or comforting words. Answer

I wouldn’t worry too much about it if you were practicing safe sex with your HIV+ partners. I know that you’re scared. It’s natural to feel that way. All you can do now is to go through your emotions and digest it. I find that denying my feelings sometimes make it worse.

I suggest talking about it with a close friend that you can trust. It really helps.

I’m also here for you. So let me know if you have any other questions and concerns! :)

It’s been almost a week since my parents came to visit me for my college graduation. They are in the other room watching TV and laughing. It’s nice to have them here with me. I am very close with my parents and they are my greatest supporters. The fact that I haven’t told them about my HIV status bothers me. That makes me want to tell them. But there’s not much that they could do for me except for worrying their whole lives when I disclose my status.

For the past week, my parents kept emphasizing that they are just happy that I am healthy and living. I know that I am healthy. But whenever they talk about health, I keep thinking of HIV.

I love you mom and dad. That is why I don’t want to tell you that I am HIV+.

I would use this to come up with a cure for HIV!